tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118435442011-04-21T18:29:47.308-07:00wyd'shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17127284673253161238noreply@blogger.comBlogger31100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11843544.post-1112592563715661552005-04-03T20:22:00.000-07:002005-04-03T22:29:23.720-07:00<span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">I read a lot of articles about True Love... </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">I also had a lot of male friends who hang around me & spending their time to chase many girls at one time.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">Well, sometime I just wonder, " Is it really true that there is a True Love in this world ?? " .. My mom & my dad maybe one of good examples about this, but they started their love long time ago when love seems so pure and free sex was very taboo or unusual at that time.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">But living on this edge, everything seems to be change a lot.. the world is changing everyday, and now we ended up in a world where its easy to buy a love anytime & anywhere you want as long as we are pretty / handsome enough, or have enough money.. where is the transaction of sex are so easy to find even if on the street, and virginity is no longer as precious as before for many girls I knew..</span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">What is love ? Is it so cheap ? ..</span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">I've read from a Christian Guidance Book about Love, Sex & Dating which said that Sex is definitely not a parameter of Love.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">It is true that if we attracted to someone, we will have lust for that person, but it doesn't mean that if we make love to that person, then we can hold them tight and we'll have an unbreakable relationship.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">God created man & woman to make a family, to unite in a family, and sex are made so beautiful to strengthen that wonderful relationship between husband and wife.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">So if someone doing it before he/she got married, then this person will lose the meaning of the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend..</span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">Once a couple of boyfriend & girlfriend make love before marriage, then their mind will be focus on the sex it self.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">They won't think about each other anymore or even if they do and everything won't be the same anymore.. Something will be changed between them..It won't be a pure love anymore..</span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">From many of my friends, I've seen it by my self about how the sex before marriage has destroyed </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">their pure feelings of love.. It won't be the same again unfortunately... </span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">And just like many of my male friends used to say, sex before marriage can make them easily think : "Why you should buy the cow If you can drink its milk for free ?? " </span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">I believe, that true love is do exist.. but we can ruin it by our own attitudes... </span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">If we can wait to do it with te right person and in the right time, we will have a blessedful marriage... </span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">Price of Love is not as cheap as a one night stand.. its also not as cheap as having sex anytime we want to do.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">But the price of love is so precious, that if we can wait to do 'it' with the right person and in the right time, we will have a truly blessedful marriage and we will feel it by our self... </span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">For those who already got married, please remember that its an amazing thing how you can meet your spouse among 6 billion people who live in this world and you both decided to be united by marriage.. Just remember how the 1st time you & your spouse met each other and that sparkling feeling was shaking both of you.. and try to be honest, and always faithful each other..</span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">God wants us to meet the right one for us.. and I believe that everything will be beautiful in His time :)</span><br /><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#cc33cc;">Acts like God tell us to do, and His bless will always be upon all of us.. </span><br /><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;color:#cc33cc;">May God lead us all to find our happiness with our destiny and we'll have a blessedful marriage :)</span><br /><span style="color:#cc33cc;"></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/11843544-111259256371566155?l=wyd-serenity.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>wyd'shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17127284673253161238noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11843544.post-1112584015976879942005-04-03T20:06:00.000-07:002005-04-03T20:06:55.976-07:00<a href='http://photos1.blogger.com/img/134/4545/1024/Lucu%202.jpg'><img border='0' style='border:4px solid #FFFFFF; margin:2px' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/img/134/4545/400/Lucu%2021.jpg'></a><br />Wyd-Disneyland<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/11843544-111258401597687994?l=wyd-serenity.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>wyd'shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17127284673253161238noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11843544.post-1112339398592703882005-03-31T22:59:00.000-08:002005-03-31T23:09:58.593-08:00<span style="font-family:verdana;">Today, </span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">1st of April.. Foolish Day & also birthday of my room mate ApRiL.. 24 year is no longer teenager, but it doesn't mean that she stop to act like one ( or, not honly her.. but us )</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">I hope .. and I pray that in this year, she'll get a special gift from God... Coz only God can give her the best gift she ever needed ( no one knows what is the most important things for her to have right now )...</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">May Love & Blessings from God will always flow and fully fill her heart with peaceful &amp; guide her in every step of her life..</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/11843544-111233939859270388?l=wyd-serenity.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>wyd'shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17127284673253161238noreply@blogger.com1