The Price of Love
I read a lot of articles about True Love...
I also had a lot of male friends who hang around me & spending their time to chase many girls at one time..
Well, sometime I just wonder, " Is it really true that there is a True Love in this world ?? " .. My mom & my dad maybe one of good examples about this, but they started their love long time ago when love seems so pure and free sex was very taboo or unusual at that time..
But living on this edge, everything seems to be change a lot.. the world is changing everyday, and now we ended up in a world where its easy to buy a love anytime & anywhere you want as long as we are pretty / handsome enough, or have enough money.. where is the transaction of sex are so easy to find even if on the street, and virginity is no longer as precious as before for many girls I knew..
What is love ? Is it so cheap ? ..
I've read from a Christian Guidance Book about Love, Sex & Dating which said that Sex is definitely not a parameter of Love..
It is true that if we attracted to someone, we will have lust for that person, but it doesn't mean that if we make love to that person, then we can hold them tight and we'll have an unbreakable relationship..
God created man & woman to make a family, to unite in a family, and sex are made so beautiful to strengthen that wonderful relationship between husband and wife..
So if someone doing it before he/she got married, then this person will lose the meaning of the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend..
Once a couple of boyfriend & girlfriend make love before marriage, then their mind will be focus on the sex it self..
They won't think about each other anymore or even if they do and everything won't be the same anymore.. Something will be changed between them..It won't be a pure love anymore..
From many of my friends, I've seen it by my self about how the sex before marriage has destroyed
their pure feelings of love.. It won't be the same again unfortunately...
And just like many of my male friends used to say, sex before marriage can make them easily think : "Why you should buy the cow If you can drink its milk for free ?? "
I believe, that true love is do exist.. but we can ruin it by our own attitudes...
If we can wait to do it with te right person and in the right time, we will have a blessedful marriage...
Price of Love is not as cheap as a one night stand.. its also not as cheap as having sex anytime we want to do..
But the price of love is so precious, that if we can wait to do 'it' with the right person and in the right time, we will have a truly blessedful marriage and we will feel it by our self...
For those who already got married, please remember that its an amazing thing how you can meet your spouse among 6 billion people who live in this world and you both decided to be united by marriage.. Just remember how the 1st time you & your spouse met each other and that sparkling feeling was shaking both of you.. and try to be honest, and always faithful each other..
God wants us to meet the right one for us.. and I believe that everything will be beautiful in His time :)
Acts like God tell us to do, and His bless will always be upon all of us..
May God lead us all to find our happiness with our destiny and we'll have a blessedful marriage :)
posted by wyd's @ 8:22 PM
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